Previously: The Stranger Ritual.
The current prevailing version of Lady Spades hails from redditor jazzyfingers at the Three Kings subreddit; it may also be referred to as The Queen of Spades or Dama Pika. It’s similar to Bloody Mary in that the ritual involves calling up a woman — or at least, something that looks like a woman — in a mirror. Unlike Bloody Mary, however, the successful summoning of Lady Spades grants you the chance to make a wish… for a price, of course.
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There used to be a variation of this game available on the Creepypasta Wikia, although it appears the page was deleted in September of 2015. I’m unclear on the reason for the deletion, but as I recall, the story as it stood wasn’t particular well written, so maybe it was a QA kind of thing. That particular version involved multiple participants; to see it in action, head here.
For what it’s worth, the famed Russian writer Alexander Pushkin wrote a short story called “The Queen of Spades” in 1833, later publishing it in 1834. It, too, involves a game of cards, although it’s more a game of chance than the one seen here. Either way, though…
Play at your own risk.
Players:
- One principal.
Requirements:
- A candle.
- Matches or a lighter.
- Lipstick, preferably red, although other colors may also be acceptable.
- A quiet, dark room.
- A mirror. The mirror may be a fixture of the room (e.g. a bathroom mirror).
- The Queen of Spades, pulled from a deck of cards.
Instructions:
The Summoning:
- Begin at midnight.
- Enter the quiet, dark room. Make sure all the lights are off.
- Place the candle in front of the mirror and light it with your matches or lighter.
- Using the lipstick, write “Lady Spades” on the mirror. Then hold the Queen of Spades in your hand such that she is facing the mirror.
- Close your eyes. Empty your mind. Relax, as much as you are able. Then repeat the words “Lady Spades, appear” aloud seven times.
- Keep your eyes closed and call up the image of Lady Spades in your mind. She will be dressed in black, with eyes to match, and although her smile can melt even the coldest of hearts, her face will be mangled and scarred. Do not panic if you hear a woman’s voice or laughter, or the echo of footsteps nearby; these sounds indicate a successful Summoning.
- Open your eyes.
The Wishing:
- If, upon opening your eyes, any of the following occur, do NOT proceed:
- The candle is out;
- The card is facing you;
- The card is missing;
- You see a woman in the mirror with her hands pressed up against it.
- Should any of these occurrences be observed, immediately enact the appropriate Ending for your situation as indicated below. If, however, you open your eyes and see a woman in the mirror with her hands by her sides, you may proceed.
- State your wish to the woman.
- No matter what happens next, do NOT break eye contact with her. If you do, immediately enact the appropriate Ending for your situation as indicated below.
- If she decides to grant your wish, she will smile at you and say, “Yes.”
The Ending:
- If the ritual is successful: Say the words, “Lady Spades, disappear.” Then wipe her name from the mirror, blow out the candle, and turn the lights on. Burn the Queen of Spades card to ash as soon as possible. Your wish should come true shortly.
- If the ritual is unsuccessful: Proceed as directed for each situation.
- If you open your eyes and the candle has gone out: Relight it as quickly as possible, say the words, “Lady Spades, disappear,” wipe her name from the mirror, blow out the candle, and turn the lights on. Burn the Queen of Spades card immediately.
- If you open your eyes and the card is facing you, rather than the mirror: Rip the card in half, say the words, “Lady Spades, disappear,” wipe her name from the mirror, blow out the candle, and turn the lights on. Burn the pieces of the Queen of Spades card immediately.
- If you open your eyes and the card is missing: Break the mirror, turn on the lights, and attempt to locate the card in the room. If you find it, burn it. If you don’t, leave it and vacate the premises immediately.
- If you open your eyes and the woman’s hands are pressed against the mirror: Break the mirror immediately. Vacate the premises and burn the card.
- If you fail to maintain eye contact: Break the mirror immediately. Vacate the premises and burn the card.
- If she declines to grant your wish: Break the mirror. Blow out the candle. Burn the card. Hope for the best.
- Do not attempt the ritual again. Ever.
Additional Notes:
If you open your eyes during the Summoning and everything is normal save for the mirror being empty or the absence of voices, laughter, or footsteps, the ritual has failed. There are no negative consequences for the ritual failing in this manner; however, it is still a good idea to repeat the words, “Lady Spades, disappear,” wipe the mirror clean, blow out the candle, and turn on the lights. Burn the card at your soonest convenience.
Do not attempt to end the game between the statement of your wish and the woman’s response. She doesn’t like being interrupted.
Lady Spades has a habit of sticking around. Even if the ritual is a success, it comes with a price.
Story Time:
Once upon a time, a young woman moved to a village in Eastern Europe from somewhere no one had ever heard of. Extraordinarily beautiful, she received rather a lot of attention from the men of the town; it was said that her smile could melt the heart of anyone upon whom she bestowed it. She dressed all in black, earning her the nickname Lady Spades, thanks to her resemblance to the playing card of the same name.
But her beauty was also her undoing. Brother turned upon brother, father against son, friend against lifelong friend, all in the name of winning just one, single smile from her. The women turned against her, too, blaming her for seizing the attention of their husbands and sweethearts. In an effort to save their village, the elders decided that there was only one solution: That she be removed from the equation.
An angry mob descended upon her house and found her brushing her hair before the mirror. The mob beat her savagely, tearing her beautiful face to shreds. Then they left her to die, with only her mirror — and her own ravaged visage — for company.
For three days she wept, her cries echoing through the village, until finally silence fell. But with her last breath, she cursed anyone who dared to say her name in front of a mirror. If you’re polite, she will make your fondest wish come true… but you don’t want to know what happens if you’re impolite.
And Whatever You Do:
Do NOT let her out of the mirror.
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I recall reading a variant on this ritual, in which you’re instructed to draw a (simplified) set of steps and a door with lipstick on the mirror. Lady Spades will then enter by the door and descend the steps within the mirror, if I remember correctly. Have you also come across this variant?
I believe you are thinking of the ritual Deeky Dama!
Its a quiet nice game, enjoy if you think you can make it.
If you pick your words correctly, you may wish her to use the mirror as a window. Sometimes she be there, sometimes she won’t. However, should you re-enter and see her, remain calm and politely start conversation. Offer a formal goodbye to return to your own business. Should you offer an ‘Au Revoir’ she may return it with a smile.
Wait, so you are saying that it is possible to establish a friendly relationship with her? Because that actually makes it pretty interesting. But surely there must be a catch, right?
Can you blink? Or is that considered breaking eye contact?
Yes, that is considered breaking eye contact. Anytime you aren’t looking directly into her eyes, you must proceed with the unsuccessful ending ritual.
You can blink, silly. This is not a staring contest with Lady Spades.
In the instance you have to break the mirror, you will also have seven years bad luck…correct? 🙁
Does the lipstick have to be in classic stick form? Or can it be a liquid lipstick or a cream?
how do you let her out of the mirror?
It’s when she puts her hands to the mirror. You have to break it or I guess she’ll come out.
Easy. For example, I’m her, and you summoned me. And you see my hands were pressed against the mirror. If you don’t break it, I will come out.
Hope you get it! And if you played the game, I hope you don’t die!
How can she come out of mirror? I mean is it possible? And also we cant just keep on looking at her without blinking because we will blink one or the other time. And it was written that she has a habit of sticking around. What does that mean? Will I see her every time I look into that mirror?
Yes.
You can blink.
maybe.
In such cases, maybe words like “maybe” doesn’t work i guess cause penalties are death and suffering.
The mirror resembles a portal from our world to her world. By breaking the mirror, the portal has been shattered, causing her to not be able to enter to our world.
You would (from time to time if you do not break the mirror) see her. She has a habit of sticking around, but I think this context means that she would stay a few days in the mirror (or in the house)
out loud… definitely out loud, otherwise she won’t hear you right?
What if you wish for her freedom? Will she be eternally greatful or give you some kind of thank you or will doing that basically screw you? Because granting wishes is probably very tireing and any wish granting spirits would probably be verry grateful.
These are the possibilities:
She will say no.
She might possess you.
She might haunt you forever.
Chance of making her says yes is very low.
In my theory, she would say ‘yes’, but doing so, she would enter our world, and reside there as long as she wants.
Then………you’re doomed. She’ll do whatever she wants to your house.
Just wondering, since all these games say nobody else should be in your home… does that mean you shouldn’t play these games if you live in a flat/apartment? Sorry if this is a stupid question :/
Possible.
Yes. It will put everyone in the flat/apartment in danger.
Whatever you do, don’t play it in an apartment.
Like with many other games, there are no specific rules for when you are playing in an apartment complex. It can go two ways: it is just your unit that participates, or the whole building is fair game. For the sake of safety, assume that it is the latter.
When you vacate the premises, do you return?
Don’t, if possible. Try to come in with a group and try to clean anything that is used to make the Lady Spades appear.
Instead of making a wish, can chu have a conversation wit the lady spades?
she’s probably some sort of genie-type spirit, so I’m guessing no idk if you could talk to her, but all i can say is just make a wish.
I know this post is old bit a bit of interesting non-related trivia: in using playing cards for divination, spades symbolize misfortune.
Not always…It can represent the Air sign, personal characteristics, conflicts yes, but generally a battle within the mind
“Do not attempt the ritual again, ever.”
Aww, then you can only make one wish, so sad 🙁
Also, what happend if we attempt it again?
Sometimes, the case of you attempting to make another wish to a spirit if they only give you a pass for one, they’ll think you’re being greedy. It upsets them, a lot. Spirits are pretty sensitive. That’s why I choose to be a very nice person!
The spirits will think you’re greedy. Spirits are sensitive (like me).
See, it says that the first time you play the game, Lady Spades may stick around for some time. And no matter how polite and accepting and nice you are to her, just remember she may think that you’re greedy if you ever ask her a second time.
Also, there are chances that she may haunt you forever (or your mirror, if you don’t break it) and/ or, she may even possess you.
Besides perhaps the second time you try it maybe the portal becomes stronger, which can allow Lady Spades to enter the mortal realm, which in many ways is dangerous.
Has anyone played it, and does it work? Can you wish for anything? I mean anything? I really want to play this game but I’m kinda scared and I need to find courage…
Breh. Wish rituals should be the FIRST rituals you EVER do. When doing the wish ritual, wish for immortality, then just do whatever ritual you want.
Do you think that I can do it in the day time? because I can’t do it at midnight. I really want to do this
You can’t, silly. You MUST begin at the exact time to do it, or else she might get mad and:
1. Curse you.
2. Haunt your house.
3. This is the most likely to happen: it would not work.
watch out when wishing for immortality… her granting that wish would be rare and the ability to live forever doesn’t mean that nothing can kill you. the word you might be thinking of is invincible. i also don’t think you should do too many of these…
Meh. I mean like to never die. EVER. Not even by spirits. Plus. I said wish rituals. I didnt state a specific ritual, but 11 miles is the one i would prefer.
Impossible. You can’t wish for immortality, that’s too much for them to work on. If you wanna be safe, then don’t play the games.
come on guys. Keep this post alive! 🙂
Can I wish for deadpools healing ability?
i mean, sure. she might not accept it. i definitely wouldn’t phrase it as “deadpool’s healing ability” though.
Do you think she’d grant a wish for someone (a specific someone, I mean) to love me? From the story, it sounds like she might have some negative experiences with love (or at least lust) and I don’t want to make her angry.
This wish is just really important to me and I don’t want to mess it up, but I am willing to take a risk like this. (If details matter, the person I want is already in a relationship. Basically. the only way I’ll get a chance with them is if magic is involved.)
I mean, you COULD… but would you really want to be in a relationship with someone who only loves you because you manipulated them into it by magical means? That takes away their agency and free will — which doesn’t quite sit right. It’s not real love; it’s forced love, which isn’t really love at all.
I’d recommend letting whoever it is go and looking elsewhere, especially since they’re already in a relationship with someone else. I know it’s hard, but you deserve someone who loves you both deeply and honestly of their own free will. Everyone does.
What if i wish that she gets her beauty back and gets ascended to heaven where she deserves to be?
I do not expect a reward on any such thing. After reading her history, i was touched by her pain and misery as my mind started imagining scenes of her past. * I have exceptional imagination power which frequently lands me in problems*
WHAT WILL BE THE OUTCOME? Will she agree or she’ll get upset with me? Please answer…
No clue pal.. You could always try… But be very cautious, polite, kind, and careful for what you say to her person. Or you might never be seen again.
Bud…The way you all end your replies really are scary and do give chills. Thanks buddy.
You’re screwed. Read the “Story Time”.
Out loud. Otherwise, she won’t know you’re summoning her and the ritual will fail.
If I did this, my mom will get mad at me for drawing on the mirror with her lipstick.
If I ask her to kill someone, would she agree?
Usually, you can’t make wishes that bring harm upon others. So I guess not.
Honestly, I’d probably make my wish something that allows her to use my mirrors as a way of communication. Like, she can’t get out, but if I walk by and she’s there, I can talk with her. Her story/past makes me grieve for her and it sounds like company would be nice (I’m also extremely lonely, so it’d do me some good too).
I am an indian..I want to talk about the paranormal game ‘lady spades’.As an indian can… I perform the game in my language(Hindi) or english is more better?? my 2nd question is that..when the lady spades is getting out of the mirror then what to do??Is it they will haunt me daily after completing the game successfully??
(I’m an Indian too, and perhaps it would be better to speak in English, because that is a universal language, and Hindi isn’t.)
Also, if Lady Spades is attempting to come out, you have to break the mirror. The mirror is like a portal allowing her to communicate with mortals. So if you break it, the portal or the connection will be broken, so she won’t be able to come out.
After you completed the ritual AND break the mirror she will never come back, if you keep the mirror she might come for a little chat around. She will only haunt you if she managed to escape the mirror.
What if you wished to be taken back in time on the night she was attacked and you stop it from happening and save her, then go back to the present time. Would the ritual even exist anymore?
I think that the ritual might be only for questions which might be possible in her power. Because you can’t guarantee that she would be able to grant you that wish.
Also, even if she does happen to be able to grant you the wish, how are you going to come back to the present?
Or better yet, how are you going to defeat the people who come at her? The article says that there was a mob of people, and if they’re strong enough to tear apart your face, then they can probably just tear you apart.
I know this might sound a bit strange but what if instead of making a wish for yourself, you wish for something like Lady Spade’s lost beauty to be restored to her. What would happen?
Why does lady Spades need to kill you when she comes out. Does that make any sense??
Good Evening Ms. Lucia,
If I wish to become a good artist and writer, is there any possible for her to grant my wish or will she kill me if she thought of me being greedy?
What kind of stuff can you wish for? For example can you wish that you’d become an animal, or like an anime character?
Yes and no. You can not become an anime character because they don’t exist really. But you could become an animal, but… would you really want to spend the rest of your life as a (for example) dog? I mean, there’s no way back…
Honestly, can you wish to be a vampire? I mean in a way your quite the same as her. Former human but always will live and kill living beans. If being a vampire means your giving up your life to be immortal means you’re greedy right. So would she not grant your wish. Probably she wouldn’t grant it because it’s greedy right?
If everything goes right with the wish making and everything then can you still uphold a conversation? Or do you HAVE to end and then you can talk to her if she stays?
I know it’s stupid, but what would most likely happen if one would wish for her to came out of mirror or anything involved with it?
It says the mirror may be fixed. Does that I can only use a fix mirror or is any type of mirror useable?